Chapter 3559

"If you become an accessory in other people's eyes, it's not only other people's business, but only that you are not good enough to make people look up to you, and not to make everyone respect you." Jiang Yao made an example of himself: "for example, when I go out with my husband, the people in the army will call me commander Lu's daughter-in-law. However, except the people in the army, the people who know Jiang Yao will call me doctor Jiang. Even if he is around me, many people call me doctor Jiang."

"Because everyone knows that my identity is not only his wife, but also a respected doctor, so no one will think that I am his accessory, and only by following him can I survive." Jiang Yao said, "on the one hand, you think you are excellent, but you are not willing to prove your excellence. So, what are you willing to do?"

A married woman who doesn't even go out to work, doesn't go out to make friends, doesn't have any social intercourse, doesn't go out, is more closed than the boudoir girls in ancient times. How can such a person let people know where her excellence lies?

Therefore, Jiang Yao does not understand, a closed door person, what is not willing?

It's like a young girl, covering her beauty with a veil. Who can know that she looks beautiful like a flower?

A person, hide talent is not exposed, who can know he is brilliant?

Shi Xiaoxue said that she is excellent, she is not with humanity, not with people, who will know?

Jiang Yao's words left Shi Xiaoxue unresponsive for a long time.

After a long time, Shi Xiaoxue sighed softly, "what am I unwilling to do? I just don't want to marry a man who doesn't deserve me. I just don't want to marry a man who is not as good as me. "

"Isn't commander sun good?" Jiang Yao doesn't know why Shi Xiaoxue married sun Yingchang. She didn't plan to ask about the process.

However, in the eyes of Jiang Yao, the outsider, sun Yingchang is really a good man.

Shi Xiaoxue is stunned by Jiang Yao's question.

It seems that he is not good, because he is not well-educated and comes from the countryside. He has not even gone abroad.

But I can't say he didn't answer that well.

"Now we advocate freedom of marriage. Even if commander sun is a soldier, divorce will be more troublesome, but it's not impossible. If you really think that he is not good, you can divorce him. Since then, you have nothing to do with marriage. It's better than thinking about how bad he is all the time in your heart. Every day, you live a 24-hour life with infinite resentment." Jiang Yao is not trying to persuade them to separate.

It's just that she said, "Shi Xiaoxue, even if you're not willing to let your future end, even if you can't see your husband, you've never thought of divorce, have you?"

"Don't say that you are for the sake of children. In fact, you know that commander sun is really good to you and aunt sun is really good to you." Jiang Yao directly exposed what Shi Xiaoxue didn't say in her heart.

She continued, "regardless of the background and education background of sun Yingchang, if you marry sun Yingchang and have such a husband and mother-in-law, you know that in marriage, you are actually luckier than most women. Mother-in-law is tolerant and cherished by her husband. At home, you don't have to do anything. The housework is done by her mother-in-law, and other things are done by her husband. So, Shi Xiaoxue In fact, you are happy. "