v2 Chapter 779： Father's persuasion

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When Feng Yifan and his three family finished their trips by the lake, they drove back together with the sunset.

The old couple Feng Jiandong and Lu Cuiling also ended their meeting with the two old men.

Lu Xigu and Quan Chengping still had some disappointments because they failed to persuade Lu Cuiling, even if they were supported by Feng Jiandong.

But Lu Cuiling's attitude was still more determined, and she did not agree to go back to see her father.

When Lu Cuiling saw that the sun was already westward outside and urged to leave, Feng Jiandong naturally had trouble staying.

However, when bidding farewell, Feng Jiandong still said that he would continue to help persuade when he went back.

Seeing Feng Jiandong and Lu Cuiling leaving, Lu Xigu helplessly said to Quan Chengping next to him: "So it seems that Xiao Lingzi is still more stubborn. It's not enough to ask Feng Jiandong for help."

Quan Chengping nodded and said, "Now it seems that Feng Jiandong is a pretty good person. Why didn't my brother-in-law disagree that they were two together?"

Lu Xi shook his head and sighed: "Isn't it for the sake of face? I feel that my daughter is marrying a young man from the country and lost the face of the family."

Quan Chengping smiled bitterly and shook his head: "What age is it, and I still do those things."

Lu Xiguo said: "You don't understand, my elder brother's education was like that since he was a child. Although he was in a high position later, but in his bones, the concept of righteousness has not changed, so he will resolutely oppose his daughter. Marry Feng Jiandong."

Quan Chengping sighed: "Oh, even if he chooses the other children, the end result is not like that? Everyone is against him, and the family is just maintaining a kind of superficial harmony. Is that kind of home still interesting?"

Lu Xiguo said: "Where can there be anything perfect? ​​There are always choices."

Quan Chengping said: "Then I think Xiao Lingzi's choice is right."

Lu Xi smiled and said: "Whose life is not a gamble? We can't use the current results to judge whether the original choice was correct. If their family fails today, the vegetable base loses money, and the son has not become Top chef, that may be another story."

Quan Chengping shook his head and said, "No, I have a different point of view from yours. Life is not a gamble. Life requires corresponding efforts before you can gain something.

The happiness of Xiao Lingzi and his family that we see today, isn't it the hard work of everyone in their family? Among them are the efforts of Lu Cuiling and Feng Jiandong, the efforts of his father-in-law, the efforts of Yifan, and the silent contribution of Yifan's wife.

Life cannot be smooth sailing, and it is impossible to succeed or fail because of a choice.

While making a choice bravely, corresponding efforts must also be made. "

After hearing these words, Lu Xigu fell into silence for a while.

Then he laughed heartily: "Hahaha, okay, Lao Quan, as expected, you see better than me, so let us two old guys continue to work hard."

Quan Chengping also laughed, and reached out and shook hands with Lu Xigu: "Okay, keep working hard."

On the way back, Lu Cuiling was a little dissatisfied and said to her wife: "Can you keep your ears soft at every turn? If you say a few good things, you will forget all those insults? She promised to persuade me to go back to see the old man? Feng Jiandong, you Don't forget, he didn't want us to go back then."

Seeing that his wife was so angry, Feng Jiandong could only comfort him by holding his hand.

"I know, I know that what happened at the beginning made you a lot of grievances, and I also know how much pressure you were under when you married me at the beginning.

But isn't it all over now?

If you don’t think about it for your son, you should always think about our Ruoruo and our upcoming grandson, right? "

Lu Cuiling looked at Feng Jiandong a little strangely, and she didn't quite understand what her wife meant.

Feng Jiandong continued: "Think about it, if you are Ruoruo, or the grandson in the belly of your daughter-in-law, how can you tell them about our family in the future?"

Lu Cuiling was stunned for a moment, but soon said very firmly: "My family Ruoruo must be on my grandma's side."

Feng Jiandong said: "Of course, if you are definitely on the side of grandma, but you don't want to give the children a bad example? We must set an example, let the children learn to be tolerant and learn to understand their parents, instead of ending up with old age contacts."

Lu Cuiling glared at her husband and said, "What do you mean? Do you mean if we will quarrel with our parents in the future? Then, like me, fall in love with someone who is forbidden to marry her? You can't be a grandfather. what?"

Feng Jiandong quickly patted the back of his wife's hand, and calmly said, "I'm just making an analogy. We can't give Ruoruo a bad example."

Lu Cuiling said: "I rebelled against those feudal ethics and ethics. Is my parents' orders a bad example?

Besides, isn't your son a good role model? He ran away from home at the beginning, and then went abroad alone for so long and didn't come back. Are these all bad examples? "

After several confrontations, Feng Jiandong found that he really couldn't say enough.

He was thinking about countermeasures while driving.

Seeing that her wife could not talk about herself, Lu Cuiling started to drive with a bored head, and her mood was also instantly brighter.

"I'm telling you that the reasons you said are not valid at all. Don't use those words to educate the younger generation. I won't pay attention to yours. I am a rebellious person. People, my son is also rebellious. In the future, my granddaughter and grandson can also rebel."

Speaking of this, Lu Cuiling hurriedly added: "Of course, rebellion is rebellion, and illegal or criminal things are not allowed."

Feng Jiandong was amused by what his wife said.

"Then you think, if your granddaughter is not filial then?"

Lu Cuiling immediately said: "Filial piety is filial piety, filial piety to your parents does not mean to obey your parents, we have to distinguish this.

Feng Jiandong said: "Okay, what if you are not filial?"

Lu Cuiling said: "Impossible."

Feng Jiandong asked in surprise: "Are you so sure?"

Lu Cuiling nodded: "Of course, you think about our son. When we were young, we weren't by his side. He used to be hostile and hateful to us, but isn't he also having a good relationship with us now?

So in fact, many things cannot be viewed one-sidedly. We must have confidence in Ruoruo. "

Feng Jiandong did not back down this time. He still said very firmly: "I think we should set an example to educate our children. If we want to let our children understand filial piety in the future, we should be ourselves and give our children an example and let them understand. Right or wrong."

Without giving his wife a chance to speak, Feng Jiandong said seriously while driving: "Perhaps you think that choosing to forgive father-in-law is a compromise to the original, but in fact, we went to visit and forgive father-in-law, but it was a role model for our children. We are generous, and we can forgive our parents for their faults.

This is true filial piety. We understand our parents' faults, but it does not mean that we agree with our parents' faults. "

Saying this to Feng Jiandong was a bit moved by Lu Cuiling.

Feng Jiandong did not stop there, but continued: "In fact, when parents and children get along, they also need to follow the principle of harmony but difference. For example, if we are with Yifan, we are harmonious but different. He wants We may not agree with what to do, but we will not stop it, right?"

When Yu Guang saw his wife nodded, Feng Jiandong continued.

"So now, as juniors, we visit your father and give Ruoruo an example. Parents may be wrong, but children still have to be tolerant and understanding.

This does not mean that we compromise, nor our submission, but our respect for the elderly.

This is also the so-called harmony without difference.

Each of us has different ideas, but we still retain respect for the ideas and ideas of others. "

Feng Jiandong spared no effort to persuade Lu Cuiling so much.

Finally, Lu Cuiling said: "Okay, you drive well, I will go back and think about it."

Feng Jiandong understood that his wife had been persuaded, but because of face, it was not easy to agree directly, and it would take some time to relax.

So Feng Jiandong did not speak any more, but drove seriously.

Coincidentally, when Feng Jiandong and the others drove back to the community, they happened to ran into three children who had returned from a trip to the lake.

Seeing her little granddaughter, Lu Cuiling's face instantly burst into a smile, and she got out of the car and went straight to the three little girls.

"Oh, my Ruoruo, Xixi, Fei Fei baby, you are back."

The three little girls heard the sound, turned their heads to see the grandma, and rushed to the grandma together.

"Grandma, why did you just get out of the car?"

"Where have you been, Grandma Lu?"

"Hello, Grandma Lu, did you and Grandpa hang out with Grandma Lu?"

Lu Cuiling squatted down and hugged the three little girls and smiled and said, "Yes, grandma is also going out with grandpa. The three of you go out to play together, and you don't bring grandma with you, so grandma had to go to play with grandpa. "

Feng Ruoruo immediately hugged her grandma and said, "Ah, grandma, you didn't tell Ruoruo, you told Ruoruo, Ruoruo will definitely take her to play with her."

Yang Xiaoxi also said, "Yes, we will definitely take you with Grandma Lu."

Chen Yaofei said: "Grandma Lu, my grandparents are going, you and grandpa can also go."

Lu Cuiling was also very happy when she heard the words of the three little girls. She was also very satisfied knowing that the girls were thinking about herself.

"Well, grandma went to work with grandpa and just came back. It just so happened that the three of you are back, so let's go home together."

The three little girls nodded and agreed.

Then Lu Cuiling led the three little girls into the community first.

Chen Shoulin and Li Xiuchun originally wanted to take their little granddaughter home to wash, bathe and change clothes, and then go to the ancient street to meet with the other two children to eat.

As a result, seeing the children being brought into the community by Lu Cuiling, the two grandparents were also a little helpless.

After the discussion, Li Xiuchun had to say: "Grandma Ruoruo, you take the child to your house to take a bath and change clothes. Grandpa Feifei and I will go back to take a bath and change clothes first. Let's see you on the ancient street later."

Lu Cuiling smiled and said, "Okay, okay, Grandma Faey, don't worry, I will definitely wash the children."

Chen Yaofei didn't forget to turn her head and waved goodbye to her grandparents.

As for Yang Zhiyi and Li Feier, they don't have to go home, because they originally planned to take a bath in this house in the community.

Then the two families also gave the children's clothes to Feng Yifan and Su Ruoxi.

"Okay, take it home with you couple, and we will go home to take a shower and change clothes."

Feng Yifan looked at what he was holding, and said helplessly to Yang Zhiyi and Li Feier: "Uncle Chen and Aunt Li are far away, so they go home to wash. You two are so close, do you have to take someone to my house to give the child? Let's take a wash? Can't we expect our family Ruoxi to wash the children?"

Yang Zhiyi thought for a while and said, "Well then, Yifan, you and I will go to my house to wash, and let Xixi's mother, Grandma Ruoruo and mother go to your house to wash."

Feng Yifan thought for a while and said, "Well, that's okay."

But Li Feier said: "What are you messing up with? I change things at home when I change and wash things, you let me go to Ruoruo's house to wash?"

Yang Zhiyi said: "Let's go home and get it first. Yifan will definitely go home and get it."

Feng Yifan nodded: "Yes, yes, I also want to go home to get a change of clothes."

Li Feier thought for a while, but reluctantly agreed: "Okay, let's arrange it like this."

Then Su Ruoxi and Li Feier first accompanied Lu Cuiling and led the children into the community. Here, Feng Yifan and Yang Zhiyi drove separately, and together with Feng Jiandong, they drove into the underground garage of the community.

When the car stopped, Feng Yifan pulled his father alone and asked about the situation.

Feng Jiandong shook his head and said, "For the time being, your mother hasn't let go, but I think I should be happy. I will continue to persuade you. You guys, also want to beat me."

Feng Yifan reluctantly said: "Dad, this matter is still the only thing you can do. Every time I speak, my mother will turn her face."

Feng Jiandong thought for a while and said, "Then, if you turn around, let Ruoxi help persuade and persuade."

Feng Yifan thought about it and thought this method was good.

"Okay, I'll talk to Ruoxi tonight and let her talk to my mother about everything."

Feng Jiandong also sighed and said: "It can be seen that your grandpa's body should be dying, otherwise your uncle and grandpa will not be so anxious."

Feng Yifan said: "I also thought about it, but my grandpa really broke my mother's heart at the beginning, so it is really hard to make my mother change her mind now Feng Jiandong said: "It's difficult, we have to work hard. , You don't want your mother to regret it in the future, do you? "

Feng Yifan nodded: "That's natural. I hope my mother will not leave any regrets."

Feng Jiandong said: "There will always be regrets, but I can only say to make up for it as much as possible."

Feng Yifan asked curiously: "Dad, when my grandfather opposed it like that and looked down upon you as a son-in-law, do you really bear no hatred?"

Feng Jiandong smiled and said, "What do I hate? I ask you, if you find a husband you can't look down on in the future, what are you going to do?"

When my father asked, Feng Yifan was immediately asked to take it in.

Feng Jiandong looked at his son's face, smiled and said, "So, as a son-in-law, I have nothing to resent, because in the end I won your mother."

Feng Yifan nodded clearly.