V2.Chapter 44

White Pearl doesn't want to stay in Pengcheng or Yangcheng for the time being.

White Pearl was born in 1962 and is 3 years older than Xia Xiaolan.

This year, Xia Xiaolan will be 23 years old, and white pearl is a real 26 year old girl.

Although it seems that she doesn't match the word "girl" at all, in grandma Bai's eyes, the 26 year old granddaughter doesn't worry about her life at all. Can the old lady rest assured?

"So you were forced to go to Qiongdao by urging marriage?"

That's an exaggeration.

What's the hurry at the age of 26? There are a lot of people who are still studying in school at the age of 26!

White Pearl's eyes were rather resentful. "You are 23 years old and married. Can my grandmother not be in a hurry?"

White Pearl doesn't want to get married at all.

Who can accept her like this?

She doesn't want to aggrieve herself and force herself to change for inexplicable men.

Xia Xiaolan used to be a shield. She said her career was not big enough and she was not in a hurry to get married. This year Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng got married. Grandma Bai finally had a rebuttal to Bai Zhenzhu: people have done so much in Xiaolan's career and haven't delayed their marriage. Why don't you get married?

Those who have a bigger career than you have a family.

Your career is not as good as others. Why don't you be positive?

White Pearl was shot in the knee in an instant, and there was no way to refute it.

The concept of "no marriage" is absolutely impossible for grandma Bai to accept!

Not to mention grandma Bai who lived in 1988, not many parents who lived in 2018 can accept their children's idea.

Not married? There is something wrong with those who don't get married!

What gay man and Lily are all sick. They will be cured when they get married!

Fortunately, grandma Bai doesn't have enough knowledge. Otherwise, Bai Pearl's masculine dress and resistance to marriage with the opposite sex have to be beaten into the "lesbian" camp by grandma Bai——

Grandma Bai doesn't understand, but Xia Xiaolan does.

Gay men and lilies have nothing to hide after 30 years. Some young people even proudly claim that they are bisexual, which is in line with public values. Sexual orientation is no longer fashionable

Even if white pearl is really a lesbian, Xia Xiaolan thinks it doesn't matter, let alone white pearl just doesn't get married.

It was said that she was forced to go to Qiongdao to avoid the wind. Xia Xiaolan immediately agreed.

White Pearl also complained on the road:

"My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy for my brother. Now she is a great hero of the white family. My grandmother now completely listens to my sister-in-law. When they get together, they will know whether they worry about me getting married or not, and my sister-in-law will introduce me to someone."

Who works in Yangcheng government units.

He is a gentle student who was just assigned to the organ the year before last.

White Pearl's sister-in-law Chang Ying is not a pit sister-in-law. The young man is innocent, looks gentle, and has a culture. She is 2 years younger than white pearl. With such good conditions, it's White Pearl's turn. She doesn't steal a smile?

White Pearl originally came home to see her nephew. Unexpectedly, she saw a stranger at home. At first, she thought it was some relative of Changying's family. White pearl didn't care at all.

Later, her sister-in-law Chang Ying and her grandmother asked her privately about her impression of other people's young men. Bai pearl knew that she had been arranged for a blind date unknowingly.

What's your impression?

Tall and thin, I guess I can't afford her punch!

White pearl could not bear such a blessing.

She doesn't like gentle men and has no education.

She also sees a lot of college students. Xiaolan is a capable college student, and some don't understand farts and can only talk on paper... Education worship doesn't exist here in white pearl. She is impatient to break up with her sister-in-law and grandmother, so she simply excuses her business trip to avoid the limelight.

Can't afford a punch... What's the standard?

But this has always been the character of white pearl.

Sister pearl kicked Du Zhaohui's teeth off.

Xia Xiaolan laughed, "then you can't hide all the time. I think you need to talk to your family and talk about your own views on marriage. Whether you have no plan to get married now or not to get married all your life, you have to let your family know what you think. They may not understand for a while. It doesn't matter. They always have to compromise over time. "

Marriage plan?

Marriage is so troublesome that she doesn't want to get married.

"Do you think it's strange that I don't get married all my life?"

White Pearl couldn't help asking Xia Xiaolan.

Xia Xiaolan shook her head. "I can't guarantee what others think. I think it's normal for me. Moreover, real friends respect each other and treat you as friends. They won't question you about such things."

What are you getting married for?

Xia Xiaolan understands that they like each other and want to work together in the same boat.

But there are always some people who will naturally dictate other people's choices. There are three kinds of unfilial behavior, and no one will take care of them when they are old... But who will take care of them when they are married is not certain.

The invisible cost women pay in marriage is too high.

To undertake housework, have children and raise children, while doing these things, many women have to work.

As for men, as long as they take their wages home, they seem to be able to shake their hands and be uncle. They don't have to do housework and children. They pour into a chair and wait for dinner.

Xia Xiaolan became an older leftover woman in her last life. She was not only busy with her career, but also delayed major events in her life. She basically chose to be left by herself. She really didn't have the courage to enter into marriage - on the contrary, she made money by herself, spent money by herself, had good financial planning, and didn't worry about the future pension life. Of course, she dares to choose that way because she has achieved financial freedom to a certain extent by working hard for 20 years, so she is not afraid of future risks.

If a woman can't even support herself, Xia Xiaolan really doesn't dare to instill the idea of "not getting married" into others.

White Pearl doesn't matter. Now she has tens of millions of wealth. Does it matter whether she gets married or not? There are so many things to be busy every day. Bai pearl couldn't have thought of it if her family hadn't urged her to get married.

Xia Xiaolan said that if she meets the right one and likes it, she will get married. If she doesn't meet it, she doesn't have to force herself. She has to need "marriage" to prove to others that she is gregarious.

Bai Zhenzhu and Xia Xiaolan talked about it and got Xia Xiaolan's approval. The whole person was more relaxed.

Xiaolan also said that her will is the most important!

Although her sister-in-law Chang Ying is a Bai family and her grandmother is her close relative, she doesn't have to really listen to them.

To put it more vulgar, Chang Ying and her grandmother's life is regular, which is completely different from her choice. The so-called experience guidance of people from the past is very chicken rib for her!

Bai Zhenzhu's idea suddenly became clear. When she arrived at Qiongdao, she smiled and asked Xiaolan:

"Will you go to the army to see Zhou Cheng? Can I follow you?"

"What are you going to do?"

Xia Xiaolan asked casually. White Pearl's face was full of expectation:

"On the wedding day between you and Zhou Cheng, I met brother pan. I've always been curious about brother Pan's strength. I may not have been able to fight. After drinking the wedding wine that day, I couldn't help but make an appointment with brother pan. He said that it's not suitable to fight and kill on your happy day. It's better to make an appointment another day!"

So you came to Qiongdao to make an appointment?

——The liar also said that he was avoiding his family's urging for marriage. Obviously, he deliberately came to see brother pan for a fight!