After Dr. Luo washed his face, he went out with Dr. Xie to buy breakfast.
Two people walked side by side.
The air in the small city is fresh, the sun is bright, and everywhere is filled with the fragrance of flowers and the chirping of birds. This is because the mountains can be seen from behind the First People's Hospital site.
Along the way, Dr. Luo asked about other friends: "How is Dr. Liu doing lately?"
“Senior sister is very good.” Xie Wanying said.
"It'll be good if she can recover on her own." Dr. Luo Yanfen then said that she was not too worried about Dr. Liu. This was because it was well known that Dr. Liu and Officer Hu truly loved each other and they were not aiming to have a child. married.
Dr. Luo said that these views are confident because she has experienced it herself. For example, her relationship with her ex-boyfriend was often praised by outsiders as true love, but they eventually had to break up.
Her boyfriend dislikes her for focusing on her career. In fact, he dislikes her because he is afraid that she will not be able to have a good child after getting married when she is older.
For a long time, various public opinion trends have always pointed to the problems of pregnancy and childbirth as women's fault alone.
It is said that the reason women have bad children is because they were born late, and the blame should be placed solely on the career women themselves.
People in the industry will learn more clearly if they go to Beidou San Obstetrics and Gynecology Department. The birth of a child is always the result of both men and women. It makes no sense to say whose fault is alone.
Whether it is true love or not, no matter how sweet the interaction between a man and a woman is during love and marriage, Dr. Luo believes that only when it comes to children, it does not mean that marriage must be for the purpose of having children.
Otherwise, one day, the result will just be like that between Dr. Luo and her ex-boyfriend.
As Dr. Xie Wanying listened, she could understand who Dr. Luo was worried about.
“What was the result of Dr. He’s second examination?”
"good."
“I heard that her husband has a very good attitude.”
"Yes."
They are all doctors, and Dr. Li Xiaoshen will not say that he does not understand medical principles.
“Dr. He’s parents-in-law seem to be more concerned about this matter.” Dr. Luo’s upright temperament will not hide these facts.
She has been taught a profound lesson, but she really can't bear to see these things.
“Have Dr. Li communicated with his parents?” Dr. Luo asked again.
Doctor Xie doesn't know the answer to this question? This is an internal private matter of the Li family. Speaking of which, when she was traveling, her senior sister suddenly called her, and she was talking about the second senior sister.
It is said that Dr. He Xiangyu is planning to move out and live back in the house he bought before getting married, in the same community as Mr. Zhang.
It is conceivable that the internal conflicts within this family are probably greater than what outsiders initially judged.
Second senior sister is a bit like Dr. Luo, she is also straight-tempered.
Dr. Liu Jingyun's personality tends to be gentle, and he is afraid that his junior sister's move will make the old man angry and affect their marriage.
Since I couldn't talk to the second junior sister, I could only call the junior junior sister.
Xie Wanying's point of view is: Second senior sister is now a pregnant woman. The body of a pregnant woman is the most important, and the mood of a pregnant woman is very important. Don't get depressed and affect the body of the pregnant woman.
Under what appears to be a professional medical point of view, Dr. Xie’s little thought is buried: To put it bluntly, this kind of thing cannot be dealt with with just one slap. Don’t put all the responsibility on the woman and let her suffer alone.
Doctor Luo heard this and sighed: "It seems that the two of them got married for the purpose of having children."
Sometimes Senior Brother Tao says that Second Senior Sister is like a child, and Xie Wanying thinks there is some truth in it.
When you get older and choose to get married, no matter whether you like it or not, having a child is equivalent to completing a task in life. As for what to do after marriage, don’t worry about it for now.
You would never think that this kind of thinking is actually very common among the middle class, who are more secure in their livelihood, both men and women.
Precisely because they are all middle class and have good financial conditions, even if they go to court for divorce, there will be no distinction between them, so they are not afraid of getting married and divorced.
Is this idea a bit naive and childlike?
In fact, it is not a simple matter to get a divorce after getting married.
Since we regard marriage as a cooperation of interests, if we break up, can I give you whatever you want?
Before she was reborn, Dr.
After being reborn, her views on choosing a spouse and getting married have never changed. Marriage should not be entered into casually. It would be more trouble than it would be worth if it brought a lot of trouble to oneself.
Speaking of which, there are reasons why many people have the above-mentioned idea of casual marriage and divorce. For example, the second senior sister’s reason is because of emotional injury.
Second Senior Sister is like a child, while Senior Brother Tao is too much like a teacher.
Senior Brother Tao's occasionally overly considerate and gentle temperament makes people feel hard to explain, fearing that if he wants to do good things, he will end up doing bad things.
Don’t blame Teacher Lu for being most worried about Student Tao during his lifetime.
