Chapter 4480【569】Change
Those who are on a business trip will make people at home more or less worried. On the long journey to the countryside, Dr. Chang Jiawei was the first to receive a call from home.
"You said you gave your house key to your mother. I asked her for it, but she said no. You never gave her the spare key to your house. What should I do now? You asked me to find someone to help you clean the house while you were on a business trip. , how can I enter your house without a key?"
What does this nagging sound sound like to you?
Does Dr. Chang Jiawei have a sister?
It turns out that Dr. Chang Jiawei really has two sisters. She is the third eldest child in the family, and she can be said to be the favored younger brother.
When Dr. Xie Wanying heard the news, she seemed to understand why her father and Dr. Chang hit it off immediately.
As long as one knows this, who can not guess Xie Changrong's wishful thinking: A son-in-law with two sisters is just like his own daughter who has to help and take care of his younger brother for the rest of his life. Isn't it the best son-in-law candidate?
Comparatively, Dr. Cao Yong is also the youngest of the three brothers, but Xie Changrong knows that it is more difficult for an older brother to take care of a younger brother than for an older sister to take care of him. It is said that women are naturally more soft-hearted than men.
Sun Rongfang is not aware of her husband's messy thoughts. She wants to have another son so that she can take care of her eldest daughter.
Parents have different calculations, so there are deviations in the educational concepts and implementation of their children.
Even though her father seems to have been affected by a lot of outside influences now, his ideas have changed a bit, but there are some deep-rooted things that are impossible to completely change.
The brain is like this. The older you get, the fixed thinking circuits of the brain have been formed and are difficult to correct.
Of course, this does not mean that all the old people are the same old stubborn and unreasonable ones. Some old people can listen and change. This is due to the fact that the brain thinking mode cultivated by these old people since childhood is scientific and dialectical, and they will not hit the south wall all the way. .
Her father did not have the opportunity to study at that time, and the surrounding environment in his life was not friendly, which led to this result. It can be said that a person's tragedy is caused by many factors.
Do Doctor Chang’s family also favor sons over daughters?
Dr. Chang Jiawei definitely denies: It’s nothing.
Although he is the youngest in the family, his parents never came from a family that favored sons over daughters. There are many brothers and sisters in the family. There is no saying that the youngest must be male, nor does it say that if a boy cannot be born, he must be born until a boy is born.
Like his uncle, who has two sons and one daughter, he seems to have to give birth to a daughter before he can give up. Each place has its own folk customs. Some people prefer boys to girls, some prefer girls to boys, and some pay attention to both men and women.
A typical family like the Xie family that favors boys over girls has a lot to do with the local clan system. If we want to completely change this situation, we must either break away from clan relations and adapt to the modern family model, or change the clan system represented by the original feudal ideology and modernize the clan system to achieve complete equality between men and women.
In fact, the local clan system in many places is gradually moving towards modernization and reform.
I believe that the backward customs and habits of my hometown, Songyuan, will change one day. This was one of Dr. Xie Wanying's wishes after her rebirth, and it seems to be coming true.
I remember hearing my mother say that day that someone from her hometown had contacted their family and said they wanted to include her name in the family tree.
Dr. Xie Wanying didn't care about this matter before and after her rebirth. How can being recorded in the family tree compare with the glory of being recorded in the medical history of the country and the world.
If we really want to reform, it should be that all men and women, regardless of gender, should be included in the genealogy at birth. Don't use girls as tools of profit. Do it when you have good things to do, but don't do it when there are no good things for girls.
So this is the condition she put forward in response to Dr. Xie’s words from her hometown.
The progress of society is driven by many ordinary people. Dr. Xie is definitely not the only woman who does this.
I heard that Dr. Bao’s mother, Dr. Tong, is the same person.
Doctor Tong is revered as the female Bodhisattva by the people in this rural area. With this honorable name, it has long been agreed by the elders of the family that it can be carried into the family tree to honor the ancestors.
As a result, Dr. Tong had the same response as Dr. Xie many years ago: This approach is not advisable!
Doctor Fan Yunyun nodded fiercely: Yes!
It seems that in Dr. Fan Yunyun’s village, only Dr. Fan Yunyun was the only child who could pass the National Association of Chinese Studies. For this reason, he had already been called to be recorded in the family tree.
Doctor Fan Yunyun did not agree.
Now having senior sisters and senior role models makes Dr. Fan Yunyun more emboldened. Thinking about it makes her even more angry. She regrets not saying: Bah, I am not something you can call around, get out of here~
(End of this chapter)
