Chapter 1421： Extra 范子 衿 (38)
Mu Yangling didn't like Fan Siwen very much, and he didn't like the Xia clan very much, but it was because the other party was an elder who raised Hao but respected her.
In her opinion, Fan Siwen is just a scumbag living in his own world. Such people cannot recognize reality and think that what they think is the most correct.
He believed in his heart that he was weak and would be suppressed by his son and mother, so he focused on eccentricity for more than 20 years.
Since you know that the son-in-law is bound to be weak, and that there is an irreconcilable conflict between the son-in-law and the son-in-law, how can you ignore your lower body and insist on taking a concubine?
But he has a good reason, because the Fan family has passed down through several generations, and the Xia family has been infertile after entering the house. She almost vomited disgusting when she thought that the Xia family was like a mother after only two years of entering the house.
Someone else gave him a three-year deadline, but he only got married for one year, as if he could be sure that the Xia family would be infertile for the rest of his life.
I am lustful when I am lustful, and I even use my wife as an excuse.
Mu Yangling hated this kind of hypocrite the most, so when she went out to rob Xiao Xia, her language was so sharp, and she was so disrespectful to him.
In fact, she had long wanted to do that.
As for the Xia family, Mu Yangling used to sympathize with her.
In this era when women are always being exacted, the Xia family was born in a weak position. She often heard Haoran mention this aunt when she was in the Northland. She knew that Qi Haoran and Fan Zijin were very good, so she was angry that she was bullied by scumbags.
It was only when she arrived in the capital that she gradually felt the taste.
Fan Siwen is indeed a scumbag, but the Xia family also has an unshirkable responsibility for Fan Zijin's situation and character.
She is a love-oriented woman, at least in her heart, she kept beating her, and Fan Siwen who hurt her was bigger than Fan Zijin, her own son.
Even though women in this era are in a weak position, they still have the capital and means to protect their own interests.
Xia has a good hand.
Her marriage with Fan Siwen was decided by both grandfathers, so unless she made a big mistake, Fan Siwen couldn't do anything to her.
She owns all the chattels and most of the real estate of the Xia family. If you really think about it, her dowry is not much different from that of the entire Fan family, so she is rich.
She has two cousins who love her and hold military power.
Fan Siwen was able to take his mother's servants all the way to the south with the court, and still kept most of the family property. The fundamental reason was his marriage with the Xia family.
Such a good hand has ruined her life. The fundamental reason is that she cares too much about Fan Siwen, whoever falls in love first must lose first, not to mention that she loves so humble.
When Fan Siwen took a concubine, he let the brothers of the Zhu family beat him up. If it wasn't for her soft-hearted concession, with the power of the two brothers of the Zhu family at that time, it would have been easy to force Fan Siwen to release his concubine, and she would even be able to hold Fan Siwen down for the rest of her life. head.
The principle of is the same as that of the Xia family choosing Fan Zijin as their son-in-law. Until now, the two brothers of the Zhu family have been steadily pressing on Fan Siwen's head.
Can hold this good hand, Xia Shi not only let himself have a bad life, but also let his son be bullied by his servants in Fan's house and despised by his concubines, and thus developed Fan Zijin's ruthless character.
How could Mu Yangling fall in love with her?
Although she doesn't like Fan Zijin's character very much, after all, she grew up together, and seeing her little friend being bullied so much, Mu Yangling would inevitably be unfair to him.
In her opinion, Fan Zijin has to pay 20% of the responsibility for developing this character, Fan Siwen has to pay 50%, and Xia Shi has to pay 30%.
Mu Yangling solemnly said to Qi Haoran: "So we must not repeat the mistakes of our uncles and aunts, we can't be too partial to our children in the future, we can't be too fond of them, and we can't interfere too much when they grow up, life is theirs, they should by themselves."
Seeing Qi Haoran's frown, she said softly, "So in order to prevent the children from getting crooked when they grow up, we must educate them from an early age and set a good example for them."
Mu Yangling continued: "So from now on, if you don't like it, you should eat more vegetables and less meat. No matter how lazy you are, you will have to take a shower and change your clothes every day. When you are angry, you are not allowed to swear, and no matter how impatient you are, you are not allowed to smash books..."
Qi Haoran was stunned and didn't understand how this matter ended up on him. Seeing that her demands were becoming more and more excessive, he couldn't help shouting: "Xiao Xiong is still young, he can't even speak, where do you need to teach him like this?"
Mu Yangling said solemnly: "Don't you understand the words and deeds? I used to feed him green vegetables and he would eat them, but since he saw you pick the meat and eat them, he would always pick the green vegetables into your bowl and beat them to death before eating them; I used to eat them every day. He was so excited that he kicked his feet and clapped his hands when I gave him a bath, and now as soon as I took him to the bathroom, he burst into tears, and ran out when he was free, I didn’t learn from you; before…”
"Okay," Qi Haoran lay on the bed and lifted the quilt to cover his body, muttering: "I'll change it later."
Mu Yangling pushed him with a smile and said softly, "Then let's start now, I'll have someone prepare hot water for you, so you can take a shower quickly."
"It's late tonight, let's start tomorrow..." Qi Haoran whispered with some guilty conscience.
Mu Yangling put his hand on his shoulder and smiled: "If you go to take a bath, I will reward you for wiping your back."
Qi Haoran immediately rolled his eyes and said, "Then you wipe your back every night."
Mu Yangling's gently swimming hand immediately paused, the strength in his hand increased slightly, and he asked with a smile, "Are you sure?"
Qi Haoran felt a heavy weight on his shoulders, and immediately changed his tune: "You don't have to every day, just wipe your back when you're in a good mood."
Mu Yangling was satisfied.
Perhaps Mu Yangling's persuasion was effective. Qi Haoran began to pay attention to his words and deeds in front of the children. Although he was lazy for a few days a month and didn't want to take a bath, he chose the time when the child was not around. Although he still hated it. Eating green vegetables, but no matter how much green vegetables Mu Yangling gave him in front of the child, even if there were tears in his eyes, he would eat them happily, and he would go back and tell his son, "It's delicious!"
In short, Qi Haoran began to learn to be a good father and a good teacher.
This kind of good habit gradually changed his mentality. When there were more and more children, they became bigger and bigger. Although their ideas were always in conflict with his, and he did not agree with many things he did, he would not force them. He told them to do as he thought, but let go after he made a suggestion and found that it didn't work. Even if he was nervous and concerned, he wouldn't force them to change their minds.
Qi Haoran's methods and attitudes in educating children inevitably affect his good brother Fan Zijin.
This allowed Fan Zijin to also teach two excellent sons, and the father and son had a deep relationship, allowing the son to enjoy the fatherly love that he could never enjoy in his life.
Even Fan Zijin was moved by his generosity and tolerance. Of course, he would only think about such self-satisfaction and pride in his heart, and boasted a word or two with Qi Haoran in his spare time, but did not dare to share it.
In her opinion, Fan Siwen is just a scumbag living in his own world. Such people cannot recognize reality and think that what they think is the most correct.
He believed in his heart that he was weak and would be suppressed by his son and mother, so he focused on eccentricity for more than 20 years.
Since you know that the son-in-law is bound to be weak, and that there is an irreconcilable conflict between the son-in-law and the son-in-law, how can you ignore your lower body and insist on taking a concubine?
But he has a good reason, because the Fan family has passed down through several generations, and the Xia family has been infertile after entering the house. She almost vomited disgusting when she thought that the Xia family was like a mother after only two years of entering the house.
Someone else gave him a three-year deadline, but he only got married for one year, as if he could be sure that the Xia family would be infertile for the rest of his life.
I am lustful when I am lustful, and I even use my wife as an excuse.
Mu Yangling hated this kind of hypocrite the most, so when she went out to rob Xiao Xia, her language was so sharp, and she was so disrespectful to him.
In fact, she had long wanted to do that.
As for the Xia family, Mu Yangling used to sympathize with her.
In this era when women are always being exacted, the Xia family was born in a weak position. She often heard Haoran mention this aunt when she was in the Northland. She knew that Qi Haoran and Fan Zijin were very good, so she was angry that she was bullied by scumbags.
It was only when she arrived in the capital that she gradually felt the taste.
Fan Siwen is indeed a scumbag, but the Xia family also has an unshirkable responsibility for Fan Zijin's situation and character.
She is a love-oriented woman, at least in her heart, she kept beating her, and Fan Siwen who hurt her was bigger than Fan Zijin, her own son.
Even though women in this era are in a weak position, they still have the capital and means to protect their own interests.
Xia has a good hand.
Her marriage with Fan Siwen was decided by both grandfathers, so unless she made a big mistake, Fan Siwen couldn't do anything to her.
She owns all the chattels and most of the real estate of the Xia family. If you really think about it, her dowry is not much different from that of the entire Fan family, so she is rich.
She has two cousins who love her and hold military power.
Fan Siwen was able to take his mother's servants all the way to the south with the court, and still kept most of the family property. The fundamental reason was his marriage with the Xia family.
Such a good hand has ruined her life. The fundamental reason is that she cares too much about Fan Siwen, whoever falls in love first must lose first, not to mention that she loves so humble.
When Fan Siwen took a concubine, he let the brothers of the Zhu family beat him up. If it wasn't for her soft-hearted concession, with the power of the two brothers of the Zhu family at that time, it would have been easy to force Fan Siwen to release his concubine, and she would even be able to hold Fan Siwen down for the rest of her life. head.
The principle of is the same as that of the Xia family choosing Fan Zijin as their son-in-law. Until now, the two brothers of the Zhu family have been steadily pressing on Fan Siwen's head.
Can hold this good hand, Xia Shi not only let himself have a bad life, but also let his son be bullied by his servants in Fan's house and despised by his concubines, and thus developed Fan Zijin's ruthless character.
How could Mu Yangling fall in love with her?
Although she doesn't like Fan Zijin's character very much, after all, she grew up together, and seeing her little friend being bullied so much, Mu Yangling would inevitably be unfair to him.
In her opinion, Fan Zijin has to pay 20% of the responsibility for developing this character, Fan Siwen has to pay 50%, and Xia Shi has to pay 30%.
Mu Yangling solemnly said to Qi Haoran: "So we must not repeat the mistakes of our uncles and aunts, we can't be too partial to our children in the future, we can't be too fond of them, and we can't interfere too much when they grow up, life is theirs, they should by themselves."
Seeing Qi Haoran's frown, she said softly, "So in order to prevent the children from getting crooked when they grow up, we must educate them from an early age and set a good example for them."
Mu Yangling continued: "So from now on, if you don't like it, you should eat more vegetables and less meat. No matter how lazy you are, you will have to take a shower and change your clothes every day. When you are angry, you are not allowed to swear, and no matter how impatient you are, you are not allowed to smash books..."
Qi Haoran was stunned and didn't understand how this matter ended up on him. Seeing that her demands were becoming more and more excessive, he couldn't help shouting: "Xiao Xiong is still young, he can't even speak, where do you need to teach him like this?"
Mu Yangling said solemnly: "Don't you understand the words and deeds? I used to feed him green vegetables and he would eat them, but since he saw you pick the meat and eat them, he would always pick the green vegetables into your bowl and beat them to death before eating them; I used to eat them every day. He was so excited that he kicked his feet and clapped his hands when I gave him a bath, and now as soon as I took him to the bathroom, he burst into tears, and ran out when he was free, I didn’t learn from you; before…”
"Okay," Qi Haoran lay on the bed and lifted the quilt to cover his body, muttering: "I'll change it later."
Mu Yangling pushed him with a smile and said softly, "Then let's start now, I'll have someone prepare hot water for you, so you can take a shower quickly."
"It's late tonight, let's start tomorrow..." Qi Haoran whispered with some guilty conscience.
Mu Yangling put his hand on his shoulder and smiled: "If you go to take a bath, I will reward you for wiping your back."
Qi Haoran immediately rolled his eyes and said, "Then you wipe your back every night."
Mu Yangling's gently swimming hand immediately paused, the strength in his hand increased slightly, and he asked with a smile, "Are you sure?"
Qi Haoran felt a heavy weight on his shoulders, and immediately changed his tune: "You don't have to every day, just wipe your back when you're in a good mood."
Mu Yangling was satisfied.
Perhaps Mu Yangling's persuasion was effective. Qi Haoran began to pay attention to his words and deeds in front of the children. Although he was lazy for a few days a month and didn't want to take a bath, he chose the time when the child was not around. Although he still hated it. Eating green vegetables, but no matter how much green vegetables Mu Yangling gave him in front of the child, even if there were tears in his eyes, he would eat them happily, and he would go back and tell his son, "It's delicious!"
In short, Qi Haoran began to learn to be a good father and a good teacher.
This kind of good habit gradually changed his mentality. When there were more and more children, they became bigger and bigger. Although their ideas were always in conflict with his, and he did not agree with many things he did, he would not force them. He told them to do as he thought, but let go after he made a suggestion and found that it didn't work. Even if he was nervous and concerned, he wouldn't force them to change their minds.
Qi Haoran's methods and attitudes in educating children inevitably affect his good brother Fan Zijin.
This allowed Fan Zijin to also teach two excellent sons, and the father and son had a deep relationship, allowing the son to enjoy the fatherly love that he could never enjoy in his life.
Even Fan Zijin was moved by his generosity and tolerance. Of course, he would only think about such self-satisfaction and pride in his heart, and boasted a word or two with Qi Haoran in his spare time, but did not dare to share it.
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